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How to Discover your Passion if you lived for Everybody else, not for Yourself

Posted on January 12 2018

How to Discover your Passion if you lived for Everybody else, not for Yourself

In these days everybody says "follow your passions", "do what makes your heart beats", "trust your gut" and so on... it seems pretty easy, right?

Actually, it's not.

What if, we don't know what our passion or talent is or we have not idea about what our gut says?

What if we realize that we don't know what we want from life and seems that nothing rocks our heart?

First, let me tell you one thing from the heart: if you feel your story is related to this, I tell you, you're not alone. Instead most of the people struggle with that, even if the "follow what you love" topic is huge on pop culture.


The fundamental principles of  follow what you love way to live is positive, however pop culture tends to show just the surface and promoting ordinary life styles.

In fact, many people pretend to live a burning passion, pursuing their purposes because everything out there says they have to have a burning passion.
Pretending to pursue a purpose is the easiest way to be accepted by other people today. If you're here, you're not like these guys, you're looking for your real you. 

Take a second to congratulate yourself for that. It's going to be a brave an exciting journey!

We use to think that finding passions for young people is easier than for mature. But it's not.

Live a life that you want and follow your passion is not an obvious concept. Instead is a marvelous, profound and unique journey.
We see super exciting life styles on social media but the true of real life is that responsibilities bring us to the outside of ourself.


We have to forget about "what we love to do" because we have to take care of family and pay the bills.
We have not feel depressed or less smart than other people because of that. On the opposite, we should be proud of our courageous journey. However, at some point we realize that we forget about ourself.


We feel dried, sad, and seems that nothing can moves towards our passion.
The inner side of ourself seems gone, maybe because we don't talk to it for too long. It felt alone, and it left.


That happens because we lived for everybody else for too much time, and not for ourself. We forgot what we love to do because we forgot about ourself.

And that's why I'm writing this post, I hope to help you to reconnect your heart, mind and spirit.

“The thinks you're passionate about are not random, they are your calling”

Fabienne Fredrickson

Before we step into the actionable and spiritual ways you can implement to discover or find your passion again, here are some crucial rules to keep in mind:

• Finding your passion is much more than a list of things to do:
You have to use your mind, your body and your soul.

• Finding your fire and live for that is NOT a must in life. May you're a multi-passionate girl, you love many things, and no one of them is more important than others.

• This is NOT a race or a a competition.
This is huge because it's easy to follow our path when we have a strong way to walk, and when we know what's drives us. Comparison and jugging, at the opposite, are the real enemies to fire.

Training yourself to avoid any kind of jugging or comparison is crucial here.

It's a process.
If you find you in a position to judge yourself, please pass away and be kind with yourself. Mind you're walking an exciting and joyful journey, be positive and don't look back.

Walking the path to discovering your purposes and passions is the ultimate privilege. The majority of people on the planet can not even dream to do that.

If you live in a free Country, pursuing your purposes and find your joy is your duty because it's the way to give your best to the world, no matter how big or small your world is.

We have to give our best, even for those who can not.

“Don’t worry about what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

Howard Thurman

The 8 Ways to Discover your Passion and live your Real Life:


Going back to yourself is crucial here. You need more time to stay with you frankly talking to the most important people of our life, you.
You could go out for daily walks, practice yoga, write, draw or listen to your breath and meditate for example.


Choose the activities that light up you the most and experiment. It allows to quiet the outside voices and reconnected your mind to your heart.


Mind that the goal is not create something for other people or that other people will judge.

The purpose here is starting a conversation with yourself to better discover who you are and what your unique path is.
This is the first and crucial step to live a more meaningful and fulfill life and start to raise your self esteem.


We all tell ourselves stories about who we are, and why. We are like that because of our parents, friends, because we're not skilled enough, we're not strong enough, and a limitless list of limiting beliefs that hold us back.
I learned from my experience how hard is changing these troughs that are rooted in our mind.
We can begin writing new stories with confidence and courage and map out actions that move us from one to the other.


Don't try too hard and don't wait for any answer, just listen patiently. This journey takes time and patience. 


Crystals are not for everybody. But if you're fascinated by them but you never wore Crystals with a meaning, you definitely should do try.
They're wise creatures that are able sustain your vibes and rise your energies all day long.

Here're the basic Crystals to wear to discover your purposes and pursue them


It trains spirit forces within the body and helps in the ability to work passionately on the physical plane. 
Garnet is useful, particularly in situations where there seems to be no way out or where life has fragmented.
It reinforces, stimulates, and strengthens the survival instinct, bringing courage and hope into those situations.
Garnet is a powerful invigorating and regenerative stone.


Pyrite is a unique protector, bringing energy from the Earth through the physical body and into the aura creating a protective shield against negative energies, emotional attack, environmental pollutants, and harm. 
Pyrite guards against continuous control, criticism and manipulation, lending the power to resist without becoming angry or sad, shifting your energy.
It's the stone of physical action that increase natural energies and strength.


Carnelian is a stabilizing crystal, excellent for anchoring in the present. Its high energy helps restore lost vitality and motivation and stimulates creativity for new goals.
Carnelian stimulates the Sacral Chakra and Second Chakra. It's the center of gravity of the body and controls the flow of energy. Gut, intuition, feelings, and other non-rational messages come from here.



Don't try too hard and don't wait for any answer, just listen patiently. This journey takes time and patience. Don't search for instant happiness, answers will comes.



Focus your attention on what you like, not on what you don't like. It could be a small thing like a draw on a cup, the tone of voice of someone near you or the bright on soap bubbles.
The intention here is to pay attention to your feelings and be more conscious of how they generate pleasure and light up something in us, day to day basis.



Write a list of positive quality you have and keep it secret, if you will.
Don't hide your beautiful face behind the mask of insecurity. You're strong and brave, if not, you would not be here.
Use a healthy dose of egoism and it doesn't matter if you can't properly explain your positive qualities with words.
May your qualities are so unique and out of the box that are no easy to explain.

The crucial thing is that you recognize these positive qualities in your mind and be conscious of them.



Don't look for perfection, and when you fell it blocks the flow of your actions, go to the opposite direction. Don't compare your quality to other people ones.

Perfection is a non-sense boring concept. You're living a real life, not other people life or any theoretical concepts.
The journey to find your passions is not a homework. It's a never-ending and exciting journey that has nothing to do with the static world of "perfection". 

With all Love,

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